Get over it

Skool's over 2day, nt that any of you care...lol...i really need a better introduction for my blogs 'i cn be lame like that' HA!
Lets pretend we have alot to say today,....why do people just get up and leave? And i dont mean, having justified reasons, like ohh they had to relocate, ur were treating them like shit, u knew dey were going to be gone. No honey, i mean out of the blue disappear into thin air. They ignore your calls, even when it shows on facebook that they have been there.
This is easy, i cant belive it took me 8 years to realize....'PEOPLE CHANGE'....did you get that??...lemme tell you again, 'PEOPLE CHANGE'...no they really do. And belive me love, its not your damn fault. Whether its a friend or a better half.
Whats that you say??....You both had a connection?...(i've been there!), you were their one and only?? (honey i wrote d book on being another person's number one..lol), you were what? best friends??...lol...i can fill a book on how many best friends i have had..LMAO!.. Yes, we know the drill. Guys, you knew everything she liked...every detail of it. you used to bring her Mexican style bagels with vanilla flavoured lattes every friday by 5pm, cause fridays were her worst days in skool and ur baby needed some comofort food. You what?..gave him a massage, stayed up till 6am playing ps2 with him even when you had 2 test to prepare for, you bought tickets for both of you to go see nas even though you dont really know why he's still making albums. Yes, it goes on and on and on but they still left.
I have news for you.....(wait for it).....NOTHING IS WRONG WITH YOU! People change, people leave, friendships run its course, even if your nt ready to say goodbye, the scales fall from your eyes, and you realise they we not 'that' perfect.
Funny story happened, my friend went over to spend the night with her boyfriend...no not to ****....lol... i mean we were planning this sleepover like it was her wedding day, what she was going to wear there, we even picked her jammies for bed...WOOT, WOOT. She comes back a day early, crying her eyes out. Prince charming ended the relatioship that morning. What did she do? absolutely nothing. Turns out, he woke up the next day took one look at her and said he was done. I know what ur thinking, she must hv scared the shit out of him with her 'just got out of bed' face..far from it. I've known her for 5 years, i've never seen anyone sleep for 12hrs strait and still look as gorgeous as she always does(no homo). The dude, just had enough. Just like that. HA!.
I believe everything happens for a reason! People change so you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so that you will eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes, good things fall apart, so better things can fall together. Nothing is as it seems.
Get over it. If i can.....Then you have no excuse.x.